Why do parents restrict their children even these days! Well, I was shocked when I took the time to discuss with my friends and cousins as well. Freedom is not there for them.
It happened majorly with the girls who been facing this type of situation in their lives in this society and also with family.
Now-a-days it been a modernized world, where people adopted to be modernized and wanted to change their way of life. Though it is a modern world few of the people remained in the same ancient believes and rules of tradition. In that point of view, the girls have been restricted from many rules and regulations with problematic objections.
The purpose of the point deeply describing the way parents treat a girl of two types, one with freedom another without freedom.
Firstly girls with freedom also again type. The type where those who don’t misuse the freedom they have got from their family another who misuse the freedom and don’t maintain the respect towards the value of the tradition of the family.
Just because of girls who don’t respect the values and culture, the other families who have not yet adopted to be modernized are started treating girls with no freedom. In such a way girls nowadays facing much trouble in comparison with other girls who don’t value the culture.
A girl is not allowed to choose to plan her life into a particular plan. She can’t even choose her studies, not allowed for higher education. Restricted not to have friends among boys, not to talk with guys, not sure to move out with guys might be for an official purpose, where girls have to work on obligations together and the process of working would be helped with picking up and drop her at home would be suspected as terrible offenses, feels a shame to answer the questions raised by neighbors, and then parents do not want this to happen So they started treating with a right to be chosen by her and set to be a living being who born to serve the home.
Why all this? This is not to torcher their own daughters intentionally, it’s just because of concern that not to spoil the prestige of family among the society.
This is all problematic situation would take place when the seed is not properly rooted in the plant by the parents. Happens when the parents fail in explaining the tradition, the culture, the values of life, and also to be adopted to the modern world with appropriate life. As a responsibility of being the first teacher to their daughter, they have to educate her with a bundle of ethics towards their life, encourage her by giving the freedom and educate her with the responsibility of culture.
All this-problematic-situations are only happening when They are too involved in hearing neighbour’s Gossip about us, So we meant to say that never fail to explain about, the culture we follow, the values of life, and traditions as well.
Yes, We can understand the parents are protective for some reason, where 100’s of eyes would watch girls when they step out, But that is not like if we put on some restrictions people will change, That’s all fault of few people in society, So educate them how to defend things when something is going wrong and if she guesses the situation is going out of control.
Mainly if 2 people of opposite genders are moving close never mean that something is wrong. No matter what the society may think but it matters when comes to the family, Never make your child guilty.
This is for every person who values gossips and restricts their children irrespective of gender, If you are doubting them then you are doubting yourself indirectly because you have raised them, Yes of course in some scenarios we see how youth are outside but making them as a reason we can’t restrict people rite.
Give them the freedom they required, When they are out on some work take care of that person than following secretly, If there are out in the late-night ask them to be and come safe-home, Try to educate her about things and some facts of the outside world than restricting her.
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